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Trigger warning: embryo loss, loss Not the post I thought I'd be writing 10 days ago, but we unfortunately lost our first transfer. Everything was perfect, endometrium was measuring 11, progesterone was going well, all scans were clear, had come off 2 weeks of antibiotics... but it failed and we lost one of our embryos. HCG was less than 5 for our first beta, 10 days post transfer, and I pretty much lost my breath. Our doctor called that evening, not to discuss next steps but

This season has NOT been easy. It’s been heavy, unpredictable, and at times, really discouraging. But I’m still here. Still showing up. Still preparing—just in a quieter, more grounded way than I imagined.

Because managing type 1 diabetes isn’t just about food. It’s managing a body that no longer regulates itself, while being expected to make hundreds of daily decisions with variables you cannot fully control. And most of those variables? People don’t even realize they exist.

IVF isn’t just physical- it’s also emotional, slow, and requires more patience than expected. Written for the women quietly going through it.

Slowing down has felt like teaching my body a new language. One where presence is allowed. Where joy doesn’t have to be scheduled three weeks in advance. Where rest isn’t a reward — it’s a rhythm.

Advocating for your health includes advocating for your finances, too.

Rest without guilt is possible. If hustle culture and health challenges have left you exhausted, this blog shares real-life mindset shifts and simple tools that make rest feel safe, supportive, and sustainable.

Preparing for surgery? These post surgery recovery essentials made healing more comfortable and less stressful. From heating pads and sit-up pillows to cozy clothes and hydration tips, here’s what actually helps after surgery — especially for abdominal or preventative procedures. Save this for your surgery prep checklist.

Feeling overstimulated during IVF? These calming, practical tips can help reduce stress, ease anxiety, and make fertility treatment feel more manageable.

Receiving a positive BRCA test result can feel overwhelming. This post walks through five proactive steps to take after a BRCA diagnosis — including screenings, support, and informed choices — to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.

The comfort items I grab daily.

Over the past few years, I’ve become much more intentional about what I bring into my home and daily routines, and through that, I’ve found a handful of Amazon items I genuinely stick with.